Does a rapist marrying the rape-victim right the wrong?
By admin, Gaea News NetworkThursday, October 22, 2009
First of all does simply marrying the victim and also on coercion only, relieve him of his henious crime?
Secondly, how can such a person expected to take proper care of a lady he chose to rape and was then forced to marry?
Let you opinion be heard in your vote and in the comments below.
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September 2, 2010: 9:46 am
it sure will help alleviate the dilema the victim may suffer in future.And i do stand by it if the rapist had gone through the necessary HIV/AIDS test |
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Patricia Ellen Thompson |
April 28, 2010: 3:05 pm
My daughter was raped when she was almost fourteen. In 1996 he asked me if he could marry her and I called 911 and held him at gunpoint antil the deputy sheriff got there because he tried to run from me. Her dad and I were divorced for at least fifteen years then I was a mad mother then and it still makes me angry. My sister married at 14 years of age in 1974 and I know that she was raped by him too! |
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April 1, 2010: 3:05 pm
that would be terrible. what if it happened again? then what would happen. i wouldnt do such a thing. i would stay away. |
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March 17, 2010: 1:52 am
Heck no WTF? How would that right the wrong? that question is just messed up |
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KS |
March 3, 2010: 10:57 am
I could never marry my victims. |
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Alan |
March 2, 2010: 4:39 am
Considering women are treated like chatle in most muslim countries is it any supprise that some court would force a women into a relationship which begain with abuse and the man is forced to take responsiblity for what he did. For the record Rape is wrong. It is a sin and I agree with God that every rapiest should be killed, along with murders, etc. |
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Tina |
January 11, 2010: 9:43 pm
It is a known fact rape is a form of control on the part of the offender. Most feel inadequate and/insecure in some way. These traits are most assuredly not going to go away by way of matrimony. There is also a very high risk of spousal abuse, and if not that, unless there is some kind of one on one therapy, there is a high risk of the offender looking for another way to feed his/her urge to reoffend. |
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decyrano |
December 27, 2009: 7:14 am
can you find ten people who will ALL give the Exact same age at which consent is possible? most countries have differing numbers…. are we talking rape as a legal definition, or assault? provide a complete question, or the proper and possible answers, hopefully both, THEN you have a poll that means something |
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liegra |
December 25, 2009: 3:05 am
No it wont.There is no way a normal person would want to spend the rest of their life with someone who raped them.There is only one thing to be done and that is to hang the guy or set him on fire and let him burn or lock him up in prison and throw away the key.I imagine rape as the most horrible thing but actually marrying your rapist is out of the question. |
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Anon Victim |
December 11, 2009: 3:02 pm
Consider this: Frat man premeditates and carries out the drug-gang-rape of a girl he is dating. She awakens the next morning with only a partial memory of what happened. She tells nobody, and is so traumatized that her scant memories are soon replaced by flashbacks. He marries her a year later, knowing she has no memory of what he did. This story is NOT fiction. The question is “WHY did he marry her?”. |
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Dierdre |
December 3, 2009: 1:10 pm
rapist in most cases are victims of rape/sexual abuse themselves. it needs serious attention. jail/prison time Black Sunday << meaning no visitors,personal phone calls,mail,general store items for the length of sentence. If someone marries their rapist, maybe they need to be locked up as well, or make a science project from any off-spring<<God Forbid..Geesh |
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BaaaallsOfSteel |
November 28, 2009: 7:31 am
Heeey look im sorry, i think its worded wrong. Does a rapist marrying the rape-victim right the wrong? That there is a netural.. |
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abhinav |
November 26, 2009: 2:03 pm
It’s rediculous for a victim to be married with the person who has harrassed her.Can you imagine being with a person who will be there in your thoughts as dreadful dream from whom you always want to run. |
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Sherly |
November 23, 2009: 3:27 am
It is not at all considerable. If the man like to marry the girl, then also it is not justified first to rape her then marry. I think She can not live with that man for the entire life. Unitl In a rarest of rare case if the girl falls in love with the man …..it is upto the girl to decide.. In normal case, it is impossible. |
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harsh |
November 18, 2009: 11:24 am
if this will happen then this will became fashion and will became a easy charge to criminal. only life imprisionment or hanging out charges is normal to rapist |
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hemant |
November 11, 2009: 3:54 am
He should be hanged at the earlier opportunity. if we set such example then only such thing would not happen. severe punishment is the only solution. |
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Roger |
November 8, 2009: 5:50 am
What type of rape? Legal rape or violent or uninvited acts against another persons body and mind? There are different issues here. In the first case perhaps it is only called rape by our belief systems in the second scenario what man or women would voluntarily marry some sort of beast that has hurt them? Only a sick person and that would be wrong. |
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True |
November 7, 2009: 5:05 pm
If that were my child they would be putting me under that jail, because I’d kill the person that did the rape. |
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Varun |
November 4, 2009: 6:08 am
No, this is simply a Silly Poll Question? We dont even have to think this, Rapist have to be given Zhingalulu(:( remember the termonoligy we know in our childhood) till the time that bastard dies!! |
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godsgirl333 |
November 3, 2009: 12:24 pm
just by simply marrying cannot correct wrong ways. Rape is against the law & a sin. you can’t take it back. the victim will be scarred forever now. |
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kapil |
November 3, 2009: 6:20 am
yae because if she is infront of that person then he feels evry second of his life that he done wrong |
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puneet |
November 2, 2009: 6:47 am
The person should be “Castrated”. His limbs should be cut as well and should be put behind the bars for lifetime. |
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Byron |
November 1, 2009: 7:17 am
Wat a silly poll? Will the people who are saying to marry do the same if the girl is their daughter? |
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Guru |
October 31, 2009: 11:09 pm
The question is wow!!, how can rape ever be ok when the rapist marries the rape victim, wow! the 20% dont know the meaning of rape nor the meaning of marriage. It is surprising that there are those who think along those lines…no…no…NO! |
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foblander |
October 29, 2009: 9:25 pm
if the victim makes the call to marry the perpetrator this issues are mixed up. Victims rights to decide their future partners, should legal definitions permanently determine the outcome of personal relationships, and the ages the parties and circumstances of the crime are all relevant. Broad brush approaches will be ok, but then the devil is always in the details of what actually is going down with couples.you will remember the canadian teacher and student case. |
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Doc |
October 27, 2009: 11:04 am
The poll question is a fairly silly one. As anyone with a modicum of common sense knows that rape is a serious crime of violence. If the assailant and victim marry, it does not negate the crime. The victim may forgive, but the law does not. At least in the US. |
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J Hudson |
October 26, 2009: 11:02 pm
To marry someone who rapes you is to give in to the fear and control. A rapist thrives, feeds and lives on coontrol. Power that they do not posess in their own life. Who is to say they will not do the same thing to the children in the household. |
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tonya crow |
October 26, 2009: 3:52 pm
so aproximately 16% of the voters must be rapisits .ask the raped , i bet 100% of the victims say not just no but HELL NO . force them into sex than add insult to injury by forcing a victim to live with the perpetrator what sick individual could even ask such an attrocious question.and what sick mind would even consider marrying thier attacker.continual abuse. no compassion or,consideration,so when do we heal i bet to say the other 84% may feel death penealty to the perpatrator may right the wrong?……. maybe!! |
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tonya crow |
October 26, 2009: 3:47 pm
so aproximately 16% of the voters must be rapisits .ask the raped , i bet 100% of the victims say not just no but HELL NO . force them into sex than add insult to injury by forcing a victim to live with the perpetrator what sick individual could even ask such an attrocious question.and what sick mind would even consider marrying thier attacker.continual abuse. no compassion ,consideration,so when do we heal i bet to say the other 84% may feel death penealty to the perpatrator may right the wrong maybe. |
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